Sister Love( Responding and Reflecting #2)

Something that I have learned from Beloved so far as reading it through psychoanalytic lens would connect in some ways because when reading the relationship that Beloved and Denver had connected to me.  Denver was like a mother figure to Beloved. She would be there for when Beloved was upset and she missed Sethe. The relationship that those two have is pretty strong. This relates to my lens because there are questions like “Who has a difficult mother?”.  A difficult mother, which are a group of teenage girls,  presents challenges and are capable of engaging with a child more than an adult. This is partly true with me because I feel like I do have a role as a mom to my siblings, but my mom is involved in being their for us but not not really engaged to really be comfortable in truly knowing us. Since we spend a lot of time together I probably know her more than my mom because I take the time to figure out how she feel in school and I do everything that I can in order to  defend my sister. This is because when my mom would be out working late, I would be the one in charge. I remember always being there for my sister, for when she needed help with math. She has always struggled with math, but I would do everything that I could in order to help my sister. I feel as if I was a mother figure to her because when she get hurt I am there for her to feel better and there are time things that they say about her just because she a little different breaks my heart. That is why I love how this book shows me how sister love is the best type of relationship that a girl can have because you’d be confident to know what's wrong and what she needs help in anything. Having a good relationship with your sibling is as strong as a mother and daughter relationship.